It probably took less than one business cycle for this new
way of thinking about unifying, motivating and emotionally engaging employees in
the business world to make its way into the church. I remember being at a conference where a
pastor shared each month he would meet with a mentor from the business world to
help him in developing the capacity to lead his very large church. Each month
when they met, the first question his mentor would ask was, “What do you have
big going on?” As you could imagine this
made him feel both pressure and anxiety as he endeavored to come up with a vision and goal which was worth attaching the title of BHAG.
He is not alone.
Right now there is a Pastor somewhere, sitting in his
office, begging the Lord to give to him some vision which will unify, motivate
and emotionally compel his congregation to achieve strategic measurable goals. Maybe he is thinking about growing the church
by 10%, baptizing 50 new people in the coming year, launching 2 new multi-sites
by 2015, or increasing traffic to the church website by 60%. Coming up with a good BHAG is harder than you think.. This pastor has to make it audacious enough to be
emotionally compelling and motivational, but achievable enough that it might
actually happen. It is also hard because in the near future he probably has a meeting with an elder chairman who wants to do something big, a
board who is getting impatient for results, his staff who is wondering where he is going to take them, or a church-wide leadership team who is going
to ask him the question, “What do you have big going on?”
I wonder what would happen if he answered the same way the pastor who shared about meeting with his mentor answered, “I got nothin’ big going on.” Would he feel he failed to hear from God? Would he wonder if his ability to lead would be questioned? Would he fear being fired?
Maybe he would be bold enough to simply point out the
obvious truth, that after two decades of the trying to implement the best
business practices in the church it simply has not worked. In his book The Great Evangelical Recession, John
Dickerson builds the case that the American Church is on the precipice of a
spiritual recession. Attendance is
shrinking, donations are drying up and young Christians are fleeing the
church. Simply put, more and more people do
not care about the church's answer to the question, “What do you got big going on?” Soon, if Dickerson's research is correct, there will not be enough people
sitting in the pews to enable the Pastor’s latest BHAG to make much of a difference.
Despite what the researchers tell us about the near future
of the church, I actually have great hope. Not in the business models we have built, but the family of God that is bound together in Christ Jesus. I have great expectations for His body which
shares one faith, one hope, one love, one Spirit, and one Father. After all, Jesus himself said, "the gates of hell shall not prevail against it." (Matthew 16:18)
Still, I cannot help but wonder what it would be if we put
away this silliness of trying to motivate people with a Big Hairy Audacious
Goal and instead helped them grow in the capacity to love, listen, follow and when necessary, wait. As the man I had coffee with this morning put
it, “You want a BHAG? Learn to wait on God and trust him. That’s a BHAG for you.” I think he is right, and not just because he said it with passion. He is right because his is point
of view agrees with scripture. Isaiah
64:4 says, “For from
days of old they have not heard or perceived by ear, Nor has the eye
seen a God besides You, Who acts on behalf of the one
who waits for Him.”
You want something big going on?
You want to be blown away by the audacious? Wait on the God who acts on behalf of those
who are willing to trust Him, and then you will see that which seems impossible
and unimaginable.
The ability to wait is not born out of our
fortitude. We do not try hard to stay in
this place until we are called out of it.
It is born in developing the capacity to listen for and hear God's
voice. We can wait, because having learned to discern His Voice, and when He is silent this give us the confidence He has not yet told us to move. Jeremiah 6:16 bids us, “Stand
at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way
is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.” Asking, listening, and discerning is the way we discover tthe ancient path. Once it is revealed we are to walk in it. Much turmoil is experienced when, in our impatience, we do not wait for God to reveal the good path. The ability
to wait is also born out of developing an intimate knowledge of the One whom we are waiting to hear from. Growth in our experiential knowledge He is present, wise, trustworthy, loving, and kind gives us confidence to wait. If He has not beckoned us to move it is because
He knows what He is about. He knows what
is best.
We think that waiting is unproductive. It is anything but. It is the place where we learn to hear God’s
Voice. It is also the wilderness where
we are prepared for what is to come. It is here character is formed and refined to reflect the nature of Jesus. Nowhere is this more evident than in our
capacity to love. Galatians 5:6b says, “For
the only thing that counts is our faith expressing itself in love.” In waiting
we are forced to lay everything else aside; our ambitions, our desires, our
selfishness and open to what God might be doing. We learn to love God by trusting Him in the
uncertainty and obeying His commands even when the fruit is not immediately
apparent. We also have opportunity to
engage His command to love our neighbor as our self. The space created in waiting forms the room necessary
to be present with your neighbor.
Rather than churning to make something happen, you can open to the
opportunity to listen, love, and be with your neighbor.
Maybe if we adopted learning to loved like this as our Big
Hairy Audacious Goal the church would not be shrinking, young people would not
be leaving it in droves, and we would not have to worry about the finances.
I think of Jesus. His
ministry was pretty simple. It began in His incarnation. He is Emmanuel, God
with us. He is present. He did not worry about what His goal was
going to be, He only did what he saw the Father doing. He developed the capacity to listen, discern
and follow wherever His Father would lead, and He waited 30 years to begin his ministry. Above all He loved. He loved the Pharisee who would sneak to see Him under the cover of night. He loved the
rich young ruler who would decide the cost of following was too great. He loved the disciple who would betray Him,
the one that would deny Him and those who would desert Him. He loved the sick, the marginalized, the
unclean, the outcast and the half-breed.
He loved the demon possessed and those possessed by their own lust,
pride and greed. He loved the Jew and
the Gentile. His love was kind and compassionate.
It was full of grace and truth. It was
given freely and completely. It was
selfless and sacrificial. I do not have time to describe all the facets of His love, but I sum it up by saying, it was a love which is so much more than we could ever possibly envision or imagine.
What if we made that kind of love our aim? What if we were willing to allow God to develop
it in us in our times of waiting so we would be ready for whatever He might
call us to, and what if in the waiting we sharpened our ability to listen for
and discern His voice so we could say like Jesus’, “We only do what we see the
Father doing.” I have a sneaky suspicion
what would be unleashed would be far greater than anything which could be
accomplished through the latest Big Hairy Audacious Goal. The possibility of it gives me great hope for the future of the church.
Wait for the Lord; Be strong and let your heart take courage; Yes, wait for the Lord.
Psalm 27:14
Jeremiah
“Those
who wait for the Lord
Will gain
new strength;
They will mount up with wings like eagles,
They will run and not get tired,
They will walk and not become weary.” – Isaiah 40:31
They will mount up with wings like eagles,
They will run and not get tired,
They will walk and not become weary.” – Isaiah 40:31
“I am the Lord; Those who hopefully wait for Me will not
be put to shame.” – Isaiah 49:23
“Truly,
truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, unless it is something He sees the Father
doing; for whatever the Father does, these things the Son also does in like
manner.” - John 5:19
“If I
speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have
become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of
prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so
as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it
profits me nothing.” 1 Corinthians 13:1-3
“By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you
have love for one another.” – John13:35
“For My thoughts are
not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord.” Isaiah 55:8
"Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen." - Ephesians 3:20 & 21
"Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen." - Ephesians 3:20 & 21
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